Vocalize Your Wants
and Desires
Ardavan Javid • Jan 6, 2026
Most of us keep our deepest desires and dreams inside.
We keep them locked away, and occasionally find ourselves thinking about them, and quietly wishing they’d come true.
Here’s my suggestion. Verbalize them.
Tell them to a friend.
Speak them out loud in front of the mirror.
Not whispering it.
Not hoping it happens.
Not waiting until it feels “safe.”
Not thinking “if it was meant to be, it would’ve happened by now”.
Vocalizing your desires is an act of leadership.
“I want an amazing relationship with _______.”
“I want to move out of state by 2028.”
“I want to have another child by age 40.”
The moment you verbalize to the universe what you want, something profound shifts. You move from passive wishing into conscious creation. You stop letting life happen to you, and start directing it.
The universe doesn’t respond to confusion.
It responds to clarity.
When you speak your wants with intention, you send a signal. And that signal organizes people, opportunities, ideas, and timing in ways your logical mind could never orchestrate on its own.
This isn’t magic.
It’s alignment.
Your voice tells the universe, “This is what I’m available for.”
Your certainty tells it, “I’m ready to receive.”
Here’s the key most people miss:
Desire without declaration stays dormant.
But when you name it, you activate it.
Say what you want.
Say how you want to feel.
Say what you are no longer settling for.
Not from ego, but from truth.
Because when your desires are rooted in who you really are, the universe doesn’t push back. It leans in.

Ardavan
Relationship and Personal Growth Coach
